After experiencing 9 long months of pregnancy, you're finally home with your little one—congratulations! While you get ready for the wild world of postpartum life. You know that period where everything shifts, and suddenly you are responsible for this tiny human's every need-who's taking care of your needs?
Across cultures, the initial 40 days after childbirth are like a sacred pause for new moms. It's a time to recharge, both physically and emotionally—a reset button for your body and soul. Think of it as a space to redefine yourself as you step into this new version of you. You entered the delivery room as one person and emerged as someone entirely transformed.
Traditionally, there's a built-in support system waiting in the wings—often in the form of your own mom or perhaps your mother-in-law. They're the wise souls who pass down knowledge on self-care while stepping into the role of parenting the parent. It's like enrolling in a multitasking masterclass that's packed with precious insights, especially vital in those initial days. Because, let's face it, taking care of yourself is as vital as caring for your little one! I remember how grateful I was when my mother-in-law stepped in to do this for me when I had my daughters. She made sure I got some self-love too, making me breakfast, giving me moments to rest, and even reminding my husband and me that we're not just parents, but partners too.
Let's talk about those all-important first 40 days after birth. This isn't just a luxury; it's a necessity. If you're reading this before your baby arrives, kudos to you! Planning ahead for this kind of support is like securing a lifeline for when things get hectic. Imagine having your own cheerleader—be it your partner, a trusted friend, or a family member—who's there to help you navigate through the whirlwind. They'll nudge you to take care of yourself, lend a hand with chores, and most importantly, remind you that self-care isn't selfish—it's essential for survival, not just during those initial 40 days, but beyond. It's a great idea to put this plan together in the last few months of your pregnancy with the help of your support person. If you don’t have a support person, there are lots of things you can do before baby arrives that can help make those first few days as smooth as possible. If you have no idea where to start, reading this post will give you some ideas.
So, what's the deal with self-care? What does it entail during those crucial 40 days? Well, consider it your survival kit during the postpartum rollercoaster. While your baby undoubtedly steals the show, remember that you matter too. This focus on self-care isn't just a fleeting trend; it's a vital component of a smoother postpartum journey. Here are some practical tips that have helped not only me but countless other moms I've worked with:
Keep Plans Minimal: Try to limit commitments as much as possible. If you must make plans, have them come to you instead.
Prioritise Nutrition: Think about what you're eating. Having nutritious meals can expedite your recovery. Plan ahead by freezing meals or arranging a meal train with your support network. If you can, consider a delivery service for healthy ready-made meals.
Embrace Emotions: The emotional rollercoaster is real. Allow yourself to feel all the feels—whether it's crying when you need to or venting your frustrations. If you're feeling overwhelmed, don't hesitate to talk to your doctor about it.
Be Kind to Yourself: Remember, you and your baby are both getting to know each other. It's okay to take it easy and not place excessive pressure on yourself.
In the grand scheme of things, the postpartum phase is just as significant as pregnancy and deserves its own strategy, much like your birthing plan. Here's to celebrating the 4th trimester, a phase that might not always be easy, but is a journey worth embracing. So, let's raise a cup of coffee or tea to those first 40 days. May you emerge from them stronger, more balanced, and filled with joy, ready to embrace the adventure of parenthood. And if you're not feeling all of that positivity, that's okay too. You've conquered the initial 40 days—why not commemorate this achievement with some photos or a simple lunch gathering with friends?
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